Well well well.. it has been quite some time since I have been able to make a blog post, and let me tell you I have surely missed it! Irshad and I just got back from the Bahamas and Florida, it was an amazing honeymoon/vacation where we were able to finally spend some time with just each other… and no dawats (newlyweds, I’m sure you know what I mean).
While on our honeymoon/vacation, I had some time to really just sit on the beach without my phone, computer or anything that could distract me and just think about the past few years and how so much has changed. It’s sad, but life a few years ago could have seriously been compared to “The Hills”. Crazy friends, School and drama was my life, it’s like everyday there would be something new..whether it was an insane desi friend who would say the stupidest shit like: “Oh, so you can hang out with her but not with me? I guess I see where your real priorities are *hang up phone*” – like really, why the fuck are you so over dramatic?!
Or, it could have been that bitch of a friend who tells you, you look “dead” on one of your wedding events because you are wearing a nude lipstick.. omg seriously kill me now, HAHA.
It could even have been 25 year old desi girls getting upset because you didn’t invite them to your 19th birthday party. Sigh.
Dealing with the drama of bitchy, catty desi girls who learn from their mothers and Bollywood serials was not only exhausting but annoying. At one point in time, I noticed I was turning into them, saying things about people I did not mean, or doing things that I knew morally was not right. But, with that being said I have to say I am relieved that I was able to get rid of the bad and bring in the new.
At this point in my life, I can finally say that I am content! I have a close knit group of awesome friends who are kind, supportive and good hearted people. I have my husband who is also my BFFL! and the most cutest family who I get excited to see on the weekends when I can!
Life isn’t about exhausting yourself over people who only feed you negative energy. Seriously, get rid of them. It might seem like the biggest deal ATM but in a couple of years, you’ll laugh at yourself for not doing it sooner. Live your life to the fullest with positivity and love! Wow, I sound like a hippie, BUT TIS TRUE!